Taken for granted!

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Possibly anyone and everyone feels alone and left out at many times in their life. Some take extreme measures of ending their only life or some just hide themselves away from people.

Only a mother can know what exactly is the value of a life. She takes all the pain during the birthing of a new life. One may say that 'we know the value of life', but do we really? Think of it once.

A friend of mine who was recently married was conceived and that alone gave them immense happiness just waiting to see the new born baby. All that was in their minds were just a smile thinking about the newest member of the family.

Just a couple of days back all their happiness shattered as it turned out to be a miscarriage. Now think of it, the joy which was filled in her mind and soul was wiped away just in a second, without any reason. All that was in her mind was bringing another life into this world but fate changed it all.

Getting a life is never an easy thing, but letting go off of our lives is pretty much easier. But if we once think that we were brought into this world with such an extreme difficulty, why end it for any sort of a reason? It might seem like there is nothing left in our lives and not having an existence would not matter anyone is one of the most moronic thought. It was never easy to come into this world but when we have gotten a life, why waste it by ending it and hurting the ones who really do care but just cannot show it?

Is showing love and concern everything? Not everyone gets to have love from anyone, in fact not everyone gets to have a life alone. Take the newly married girl for instance, her dreams of holding her baby in her arms was erased in just a fraction of a second but she will keep her head up high and still hope to bring a new life into this world.

When getting into this world can be so difficult, some people just do not think once of how much they have already struggled in life and just take the wrong step and end it all. Does it even make 1% of sense? According to me no! Not everyone gets everything but the least you got is a 'life' so make that as the most rather than just taking life for granted.

We all know that, life is hard and death is easy! But why do we need the easy way out when we've come so far in life? If things don't go the way you want it every time or anytime, it is never a valid reason to wipe away your life.

Its easy to say so, I know. But dig deep into your heart and mind and think life may never be easy. And if you have the strength to die, you definetly have the courage to live. All you need to do is just breathe and recall all the struggle you've faced and come forward till now.

We get just one life, make the most of it. And do not waste it.

Comments

deeps said…
there is a time for everything
a season to bloom n a season to fade..and a reason behind all that...
March 26, 2014 at 12:20 AM
Unknown said…
That was an excellent post :)
To make everyone realize how worth while life is :)You gave a perfect example and have written it way too well :)

p.s. read through other blogs of yours, they have their own power with each message. They are brilliantly written :)
April 3, 2014 at 3:05 PM
Avena. R said…
Thank you Umme, I hope this attempt of trying to make people get to know the reality of life and what is real pain and how to come over it would change at-least one person's way of taking their life and other's life just for granted.

=) Thank you for all your support.
April 7, 2014 at 12:03 AM
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