Silence..!

Well, Why not? Confused? Don't be. Read the remaining part of the post and you shall understand what I'm trying to say. Time never stops, it may stop if we are talking about a wall clock or a wrist watch, which ran out of battery. But, I'm not talking about the materials which shows time. We might be still in our bachelors of education, postgraduate or even working. There would ve always been one thing you hung on to, but you decide to let go of it just because its the end of an era in a particular phase. By letting go of the one thing you wanted and were happy with, just to enjoy what's left in the remaining time of your present phase you may not realise that you've accomplished your enjoyment but failed to see what your loosing in the process. We hang on to things to stick to it, not to drop it and go back to being the way you wanted from the start, if we so badly wanted to be just like how our lives were before why bring up the getting closer phase in be...

We all seem to crawl in darkness and pain every now and then screaming and shouting for a ray of light to fall upon us and mercy us for a happy day ahead but we all forget that darkness cannot fade until we let in the brightness shine upon us and keep the dark side (pain) aside so there is space for the sun shine to lead a path for us. To make it simple, we keep dying and crying about the passed away days and still stay in the past and forget that today is a brand new day where we get to fill in each second filled with happiness. We try to hard dreaming of a happy future we forget to make our present a better place to live in. Until a season of rainy days pass by the shiny sunny days never show it, even if all days were sunny and bright we would never realise the real value and the happiness of a bright day until we fall in the mud puddles and pits from the rain. We all tend to keep saying the pain never leaves us, but never once we try to be the reason to erase or make thou smi...

Again I'm writing after a long gap, I know that its not necessary to keep blogging again and again but honestly, the site has very few visitors. They do give in good remarks and corrects my mistakes. Today I will be telling you all about myself a little. Pretty much a little long back i got addicted to 'nicotine'  through coffee, medications and little bit of smokes too. I know smoking is a wrong thing but honestly for the amount of stress which builds up in my head either medications or smoking or sometimes harming myself is the only way to feel revealed. But for me, even those wont work and i just outside and cry as much as i want to, this re-leaves at-least a little bit of irritation inside my head and body. But these do not stop me from going to my goal, the dreams, I've dreamt was not during when I've been asleep. Right now I do not have much to say. That's all I wanted to share. If your reading this you may feel this blog is just another Junk but tr...

As the title says so, nothing can be done as easy as we might think as far as I know, at least. Earning at a young age is a good thing, but what if the earning part overtakes your studies in life? When you're a student and you are still studying, focus on the 'still a student' part than earning or doubling your money. Earning is indeed a good thing, but if its making you concentrate only on the earning part by working or investing, there are almost 70% of chances that you will take studies for granted and you continue your earning part more. In today's days there are not just one or two means of earning. And most of the people die to keep earning and earning. And the youth and the grown ups, put in money and hurry to get their payment with more income. They're always just thinking of earning in a very short time. Whereas in olden days, money was just a part of time which was needed only for the necessary materials. But in this generation just having and doubl...

A couple of minutes back I heard two men talking about money, materials and just more money. And I kept on thinking about life and money. As in, there are people who strive day and night to earn enough money to survive each day with the basic necessities like food, shelter and bare minimum clothing. And there are people who just keep earning and earning though they have enough money to live their entire life. Not that earning more than how much is needed is wrong. But whats the outcome from it? Pass on the fortune to their family? Or maybe a charity? The people who earn more than their lives requirements might pass it on to their children, but then again whats the outcome of that? Just giving away their entire life's hardwork to their kids and give them a reason to lay back and just enjoy the money and not try to move even a finger and just live that way till their death? These people work everyday, every hour but they don't seem to give up! If you spend your entire ...

At some point of age, we all feel lonely and wanting to be loved and cared by a person than just a friend or from a family member. In most of the cases I've seen it destructing the mental peace and their inner-self while they think they found the person who they thought was "meant to be" and leading that person in a very disturbed phase. Why do we feel so? No matter how much love is given at home or from friends, the typical human nature of not feeling satisfied with what they have or what they get is never enough. We try to go in search of something, when we actually have the amount of happiness, care and love we were suppose to get. But then again its the hidden part inside of us which makes each individual to seek for love from even a random person because they just felt like they could be happy with them. Why isn't the love we get does not seem to be enough? Its a simple thing as we take the people around us for granted, whatever we do and whenever we do an...

At this point you would have gotten a hint of what I've been trying to do with words over here. I feel more inspired to write as everyone of you keep sending me your remarks, and all I have to say is that I promise you that you will feel much better and feel the difference in yourself while you read these posts and understand the exact meaning of life. Right now, I just got a random thought of the line from the movie 'Yeh Jawaani, Hai Deewani' where Ranbir Kapoor states a dialogue as 'Waqt Guzartey' (correct me if I'm wrong with the spelling over there), in that scene the supporting co-star briefly describes how it feels to use our national language while staying in another part of the world. And about how soon the time fly's by, we never realize how soon the time goes. Now look at it, think of the time when you started a new semester or a new project, and whilst working on it you would have felt that 'still so much time is left and you can finish i...

How so cliche of us that we all think that tomorrow will be worse than today and yesterday? or it will be better than these days? We all have rough times and days go wasting in doing nothing. And we keep saying to our selves that tomorrow is just going to be worse as so far, throughout our lives we've just suffered and there will never be a good tomorrow. But some people are so enlightened with the hope that the past will remain just as an un-wanted memory and from tomorrow the good times starts, and this they think everyday! Now, in this mediated world they've decided to tag these sort of people in two categories. It's definitely not a surprise to see such a thing as we all know that for anything and everything we get tagged upon. So, these two so called type of "behavioral people" is commonly distinguished as Optimistic and Pessimistic people. Where these people who have positive thoughts in life as 'Optimistic' in nature and yet again just beca...

I'm not even going to start by saying, "you probably have heard all these before" as I know that you definitely have heard it infinite times throughout your life. You keep hearing "lectures: from your close ones or sometimes even random people about not to care about what people think of you or let them judge you or even things like 'if they think that's the way you are, then just be how you are. Why would you want to change?' Why I am taking up this particular topic is just to see if by reading this maybe, just maybe one might start thinking in a humane way. We weep through the nights remembering what we've heard during the days, but we forget one thing. It isn't just us who are being talked about or been judged. Knowing the pain of being commented in any possible way, we forget that we too are judging others and talking behind their backs. If a person is different from how you are, it simply means they're different and they are not y...

Possibly anyone and everyone feels alone and left out at many times in their life. Some take extreme measures of ending their only life or some just hide themselves away from people. Only a mother can know what exactly is the value of a life. She takes all the pain during the birthing of a new life. One may say that 'we know the value of life', but do we really? Think of it once. A friend of mine who was recently married was conceived and that alone gave them immense happiness just waiting to see the new born baby. All that was in their minds were just a smile thinking about the newest member of the family. Just a couple of days back all their happiness shattered as it turned out to be a miscarriage. Now think of it, the joy which was filled in her mind and soul was wiped away just in a second, without any reason. All that was in her mind was bringing another life into this world but fate changed it all. Getting a life is never an easy thing, but letting go off of our ...

This probably relates to each an every person who have the in-vain thought of having a life Partner, either now or maybe in the future. Each one of us do any possible thing as in, change the way we look, change the way we talk and all the xyz's in us just to impress a person when we get to know what sort of a person they like. We turn out to be a whole different person just to impress 1 person, even thought inside all we want is to find a person who will accept us for how we are on the inside. Around a thousand number of times our friends and everyone around us tell that "no matter how good we are in the inside, not everyone may really try to know us and love/like us for what we really are". The very first thing we hear is that, no matter how pure we are at heart the person whom we like of the opposite gender will go through the way we look and the way we behave. We can hide and pretend to be the way they want us to be till a certain point, but one day we get tired o...

After having a inimical life for a long time or even a short period, taking a different step to come forward in life and forget the life we've led could seem unusual for a while and even to the people around you they start seeing the way your trying to change the way you were before and being subtle after having to live your life just for fun being in the illusion that those days would give us happiness. But at some point in life one does realize that unnecessary socializing did nothing but spoils one's peace of mind. It might take longer than we expect but there will come a time when we feel like the life we had once was good but there are priorities which are the most important thing in life. Then, when the person no longer wants to interact with any sort of people who would encourage them for certain things and they let go off their friendship only for that one reason, the other person starts commenting on us. Just because we're done with the life we had and all we ...

About an year back one of my doctor clearly explained a known fact to me stating the proverb 'The grass is always greener on the other side' which means the other circumstances seem more desirable than one's own but in reality are often not.  At that point I was not ready to accept the fact that someone else's state of life maybe more disturbing than mine. I was just not ready to see that there is something that I do have which another person needs. I just saw the downside of my own life and kept on comparing my life to someone who has everything which I never actually needed in the first place and ignored the fact that there might be something that is missing in their lives too.  Even after he tried his best to make me understand, I was just too adamant to even take his words and think over it once. As time passed by, I started seeing the difference in everyone's lives. At that moment, the first thing that hit my mind was the proverb he stated. It turned o...

‘Why me?’ is the question almost each and every person asks when something goes wrong with them or things does not go the way they thought it would. I know that most of the people we know keep lecturing about the fact that their life is much worse than the others as they see their lives in pain and the others in a different perspective even if the person they’re talking to is having the exact same problem. Nobody has a “perfect” life, to be honest I’ve seen people who have everything but still there is not even a single sign of happiness in their life. A person who does not get ‘materials’ which they ask for though they get infinite amount of love from family and friends says that the person who gets everything they ask for which are just materials. The first person does not see that the other person is really not happy from the inside as they get what they ask for but they never get what they need.  We keep weighing and comparing ourselves to others and say they get ...

Every-time a person who looks at my hand the first thing they say is 'are you mad?' By now I've become immune to not take it as an insult or disturbing my mind more. But there was a time when I'd end up cutting myself again just because of the words used to "describe how I am", according to them that is. A couple of weeks back we started an organization within ourselves. Our first project was in a hearing-impaired school, where a young lad glimpsed at my hand and started asking as "what happend to my hand?" for a second I didn't know what to answer him, and then another young kid who started sign-ing at him and asking him not to ask anything as he knew answering for that would make me feel un-comfortable. This was the first time in my life a person did not judge me or commented without knowing about the reason behind those cuts. For a second I felt as if some people do understand if not everyone but atleast someone. I never really understood...

I have no clue why I am taking up this particular topic to talk about, but what am I gonna lose? So, here's what I want to say.. Anyone and everyone would have come across people, who have the habit of self harming by cutting their wrist, chopping off their hair and more. When a person gets a glance of such a person the first think they say is 'Are you mad'? or 'You're a big time loser'. When a person has gone through the pain of having to harm themselves, they would not have done it for some sort of joy, there will always be a reason behind it. So, why not talk to them and find out why they do so and what might make them not do such a thing again. Instead, why do we just pop  questions which taunt them and make them feel like they're just too stupid to do so. Self-harming is not a thing a person does to get attention from someone or just for fun! Why not just make them feel like they're no different from anyone else? Why not make them feel like ...