Fishing for thou

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At some point of age, we all feel lonely and wanting to be loved and cared by a person than just a friend or from a family member. In most of the cases I've seen it destructing the mental peace and their inner-self while they think they found the person who they thought was "meant to be" and leading that person in a very disturbed phase.

Why do we feel so?
No matter how much love is given at home or from friends, the typical human nature of not feeling satisfied with what they have or what they get is never enough. We try to go in search of something, when we actually have the amount of happiness, care and love we were suppose to get. But then again its the hidden part inside of us which makes each individual to seek for love from even a random person because they just felt like they could be happy with them.

Why isn't the love we get does not seem to be enough?
Its a simple thing as we take the people around us for granted, whatever we do and whenever we do and we find love from them, we just feel "they're family, they are meant to love us" - this sort of a misunderstood thoughts occur to not just one or two people. But 'these' people do not try to understand the fact that there are people who actually do not even get this sort of affection.

We think the lacking of a little affection would spoil our day and our hard-work, but we fail to think of the people who do not even get half of what we get.

Reality check:
In most of the cases it turns out to be in-vain while the 'partner' they choose would just break them apart.
In worst cases the person after loosing the 'person' they chose would have left them, they turn out to be just hurt and change the way they are.
Even after lets say 5 to 6 years later they may see the reality of life and forget about the childish infatuation and move ahead, but some cases they just keep getting worst.

So, in the end what I'd just like to add is just the same as what I write in each post.
We're all born different, some are good as they are and some have just gone out of the league. But on a final note I'd just want to add, 'explore the love you are getting today, as you may not get it tomorrow and you may regret it'. What you have is what you get, life is hard but still 'Live and let live, with love'.

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