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A new life?

After having a inimical life for a long time or even a short period, taking a different step to come forward in life and forget the life we've led could seem unusual for a while and even to the people around you they start seeing the way your trying to change the way you were before and being subtle after having to live your life just for fun being in the illusion that those days would give us happiness. But at some point in life one does realize that unnecessary socializing did nothing but spoils one's peace of mind. It might take longer than we expect but there will come a time when we feel like the life we had once was good but there are priorities which are the most important thing in life. Then, when the person no longer wants to interact with any sort of people who would encourage them for certain things and they let go off their friendship only for that one reason, the other person starts commenting on us. Just because we're done with the life we had and all we ...

The 'typical illusion'

About an year back one of my doctor clearly explained a known fact to me stating the proverb 'The grass is always greener on the other side' which means the other circumstances seem more desirable than one's own but in reality are often not.  At that point I was not ready to accept the fact that someone else's state of life maybe more disturbing than mine. I was just not ready to see that there is something that I do have which another person needs. I just saw the downside of my own life and kept on comparing my life to someone who has everything which I never actually needed in the first place and ignored the fact that there might be something that is missing in their lives too.  Even after he tried his best to make me understand, I was just too adamant to even take his words and think over it once. As time passed by, I started seeing the difference in everyone's lives. At that moment, the first thing that hit my mind was the proverb he stated. It turned o...