"Outside those Pink Walls"

How often do you think out of the box? Finding a guy, tying the knot and getting married is all a woman wants? Is it? Its the 21st century and times change. Women have equal rights as men do. They work as equals but why is that they are treated like a grocery, picking the one they like? Shouldn't women select the man they like? What is that in this insane world that though women are more powerful than a man in certain fields, all a woman dreams of is a marriage?

Is marriage everything? Can't a woman lead a single and a happy life?

Without the family fuss and husband's rules and regulations and yes the family drama of-course. A woman has the ability to reach another planet and come back but why not have the will power to live without a husband the"backbone". To be honest it seems silly how all Indian women want in life is wedding, a husband and a bunch of kids.

What is marriage? Isn't it a bond between a man and a woman taking a vow to live together for the rest of their lives for better or for worse. So is a wedding really required to love someone and live with them? The illusion of a perfect wedding seems to be in every girl's mind. They are underestimating themselves by thinking they need a man to support them.

No woman have been independent, they still need to learn that a marriage is just a phase of life not their entire life, where they spend years together planning on what to wear and to to present themselves.

Well according to me a 'marriage' is not necessary, if you love someone be with them there is no guarantee that just by tying a knot they'll be together forever. A single piece of paper can break their marriage. So Why go down that lane? If two people love each other, they are free to be with each other it's the weak mind which makes them sink into the thought of marriage.

Women have the freedom to choose whether they want to be in committed relationship or not, families forcing them to get married just because they are growing old is never an option.

You were born alone and certainly will die alone so why bring up a man in the process? Live your life the way you want to. And stay happy with what the lord has given you.

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