Why me?

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‘Why me?’ is the question almost each and every person asks when something goes wrong with them or things does not go the way they thought it would. I know that most of the people we know keep lecturing about the fact that their life is much worse than the others as they see their lives in pain and the others in a different perspective even if the person they’re talking to is having the exact same problem.

Nobody has a “perfect” life, to be honest I’ve seen people who have everything but still there is not even a single sign of happiness in their life.

A person who does not get ‘materials’ which they ask for though they get infinite amount of love from family and friends says that the person who gets everything they ask for which are just materials. The first person does not see that the other person is really not happy from the inside as they get what they ask for but they never get what they need. 

We keep weighing and comparing ourselves to others and say they get what they want but we fail to see what they really need like ‘love’, ‘care’ and ‘time’ to speak to their parents/siblings.
For a moment just think if you could have pin to pin of what all you wanted as in ‘materials’ and did not get even 1% of love from anyone, would you be happy?

A person who gets materials and not love, envy’s the person who gets everything a person needs as they do not pay attention to the fact that he/she is not getting what they want. And the person who has everything one needs and not what they want they envy the one who gets anything they want but fail to see that they are not getting a single thing which is needed.

As you read this you may feel that, most of your friends and even your family would have given you a lecture on this topic and still feel the way you've set your mind to. But just once, start thinking about what you have right now of all the wants and needs you always ignored while seeing the other person and questioning yourself as ‘Why me?’ again.

Life is sort of a very strange journey. It may end anytime or it may change anytime. So let’s stop seeing another person and letting ourselves down and just, live in the moment.


That’s all I wanted to say, for now..!

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