Would you want to be..?

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I'm not even going to start by saying, "you probably have heard all these before" as I know that you definitely have heard it infinite times throughout your life. You keep hearing "lectures: from your close ones or sometimes even random people about not to care about what people think of you or let them judge you or even things like 'if they think that's the way you are, then just be how you are. Why would you want to change?'

Why I am taking up this particular topic is just to see if by reading this maybe, just maybe one might start thinking in a humane way. We weep through the nights remembering what we've heard during the days, but we forget one thing. It isn't just us who are being talked about or been judged. Knowing the pain of being commented in any possible way, we forget that we too are judging others and talking behind their backs.

If a person is different from how you are, it simply means they're different and they are not you for sure. Just because you think the person is weird sort only because they do not walk like you, talk like you or be like you. No two people can be same, not even sisters. We are created as separate individuals for a reason, we are different from each and everyone accordingly to the circumstances we've had to face in our lives.

Even if you take identical twins for an example, you will find immense difference between both the individuals. Just because one person is not like you, do not judge them or talk about them and just hurt them with words or actions, there isn't anyone in this world who is perfect. Neither are you. So, stop trying to find the faults others stars than looking at your own life.

Not everyone will come up and speak up face to face that, what one is doing is wrong and put an end to it, it simply isn't possible for many individuals. So, just understand the simple fact - No two humans can be the same, do not except someone to be the way you picture a person to be, accept people for the way they are if not just do not dig into their lives and create a havoc inside of them.

Being a human the least we can do is, have at-least the slightest sanity in us to think before we hurt someone by judging/speaking in a hurtful way.

Just try being a human with a heart. Life will seem much simpler! =)

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