Posts

Tales of tis' girl

We were much younger than 13 when we first hit the Yes! I am of 13 years or elder while signing up for our first profile. Orkut was the first major happening social media site. But in a leap Facebook took over. In a blink of an eye.. How did it all start? Orkut died. Out of nowhere we got so busy with our lives at that point using Facebook was pinned in our minds.  After a few years it started to feel like it was the end of an era. We stopped looking at scrapbooks and started to give thumbs up to peoples posts. Not to forget a double tap to like on Instagram has still been in trend. People are sick of social media. But its a gateway again. I guess in the starting days we missed finding out who has checked our profile recently like we did on Orkut. It's amazing yet strange of how we eventually do move on from one phase to another. For girls like me, it did seem like a good hope tho..

Nature.. what is it? what is it not?

It cannot be predicted, it cannot be played around with, it isn't something you can take for granted.. But, Nature too can be destroyed. But only by nature itself. What is this? Which gives life and take life as well? Does nature have to do anything with life? Does our lives depend upon nature? Yes! It does right? So, knowing this why are we still doing the same mistake of destroying our nature for the benefit of our helplessness. We say 'Swatch Bharat' but we throw trash anywhere and everywhere possible while we are out. We do this in some place and when someone throws their trash near the place we reside we start complaining and have to face unneeded disturbance. Same way, some one may curse you for doing so like you do to them and that again is a waste of time in life. Instead you by yourself stop throwing trash out side and keep till you find a proper disposal place. Problem solved! :) It is not just important to keep our self clean and so does the s...

Why do I write?

It’s fun, you get to express your thoughts and happenings. You write about what you want ‘some one’ to read and feel good or learn about something. Maybe It’s just my perspective but writing is all about expressing. What do you feel?  I write because I want to speak, I want people to hear me and know what I want to say. It doesn’t amuse me that some people find this useless but, I’m certainly not a person who thinks that way.  For me, this is a form of happiness. Because, I get to clear my head about anything and everything that’s going on inside. In this way, I don’t need a person to talk to me to omit with. I don’t feel the need to use fancy words, as I just write for the moment and the people who do read may feel there’s nothing extraordinarily written. The main reason to write.. is so everyone can understand the content in the write up. Keep reading. Keep writing. Even if there are errors, don’t stop! At times people may mock at what your doing, but Keep wr...

We all DREAM!

We all have at the least dreamt in our sleep. But the dream I'm talking about happens when we are wide awake; ‘Day Dreaming’ if you would like to call it that. Some of us dream of a Range Rover in our backyards; some of us dream of getting the highest marks in our exams and some of us dream of even starting-up a business. No matter what we dream, the key to make our dreams come true are 2 main things - 'Hard Work' and 'Smart Work'. And trust me on this, these two are the only ways to turn our dreams into reality.  Why 'Hard work'? Working on something is the only way to succeed anything in life. Be any form of work, planning and immaculate execution holds the golden pot at the end of the rainbow! But this is not the only thing that brings you closer to your dream. Smartness makes it hard for the hard work to fail! Why smart work? Hard work helps you traverse the map persistently but when it comes to breaking the lock of a treasure...

Psychiatry, another way to addiction!

I write this as a personal experience since the past 11 years of my life with psychiatric medication. Having been diagnosed with 'ADHD', 'OCD' and 'Bi Polar' at the earliest of my age was started with psychiatric medication, when I was 9 years age. It is indeed a boon to have both psychiatric and psychological help in today's era complied with stress and competition where even people like I too can compete in this world in every field. But the slightest mistakes of the doctors and not educating the public about the psychological problems one faces can definitely be traumatic with their behaviour towards us. The medical practitioners nor the society tries to see the difficulty a person with even a minor depression goes through let alone not even treat them as human at certain times. This is after my recent break down of getting addicted to psychiatric medication and started over dosing myself, I would not even be myself half the time. Leading...

Why me?

Ever questioned yourself this way? Well, your not the only. To be completely honest, I question myself this in my day today life more often than one can think. People might see me as a very strong person but even the hardest rock too breaks down one or the other time. I've had to see a life where I could keep myself in comparison among people who never questioned this as they did not even have the ability to do so. But they are living just fine even till date. It's never a bad thing to break down or think why wrong things happen only to us. But, do remember its not just you who is questioning yourself, in fact the very person sitting next to you, too is doing so. When life seems difficult and just plain wrong to you, just remember the people who do not have the ability to speak a word and express their pain, people who cannot hear if people are speaking against them, or even the people who cannot see what and what not is happening around them. And trust me once you d...

“To live a life of a designer, one must lose hope of being wrong”

  To start with, the basic element required for a designer is to be creative. And produce our output in the most original and eye catchy way.   The dream of a designer is to create meaningful designs that communicate on a visual, intellectual and emotional level.   A life of a designer would definitely be taken as one of the most interesting jobs, compared to the other forms of the work. The more one is trend savvy, the easier it gets to create something completely new.. and easier to catch the attention of new audience. If we take,   Sir Walt Disney for example, he could have had his fears and flaws too. But it did not stop him from creating the first ever cartoon to be made “Mickey Mouse and the Steam Boat”. Because of which, the character Mickey Mouse is still the heartthrob of every child and even adults.  Sir Wa lt Disney too had his doubts where it might not be up to the mark, but it did not stop him, in fact his fear of being wrong was what ...